I rarely mention my birthday on social media. However, I’m making an exception for this birthday. It was hugely momentous, and felt unlike any I’d experienced before. I turned 60. Sixty. The big 6-0! Far from feeling ‘old’, I brimmed with a joy and happiness that even surprised me. Being happy isn’t particularly unusual. I’m generally … [Read more…]
In the spring of 1982, I began having increasingly violent dreams. I’m not sure why. Maybe because wrestling season had just ended, and my wrestling obsession could no longer suppress my need to be myself as a young gay man. Maybe because the finish line of graduation and getting out on my own was so … [Read more…]
What is Gay Pride? What does even mean to celebrate Gay Pride? Is it all about festive parties, lots of alcohol, and rainbow-colored sexy clothing? Or is it a somber recognition of the Stonewall patrons and their fight against police harassment as they sought to simply live as openly as they could in a NYC … [Read more…]