{"id":261,"date":"2012-11-07T15:41:23","date_gmt":"2012-11-07T23:41:23","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/www.kevware.com\/geek\/?p=261"},"modified":"2012-11-07T15:41:23","modified_gmt":"2012-11-07T23:41:23","slug":"regardless-of-who-won-weve-all-lost","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.kevware.com\/geek\/regardless-of-who-won-weve-all-lost\/","title":{"rendered":"Regardless Of Who Won, We&#8217;ve All Lost!"},"content":{"rendered":"<p><a href=\"https:\/\/www.kevware.com\/geek\/wp-content\/uploads\/2012\/11\/elephant_0.jpg\"><img decoding=\"async\" src=\"https:\/\/www.kevware.com\/geek\/wp-content\/uploads\/2012\/11\/elephant_0.jpg\" alt=\"\" title=\"elephant_0\" width=\"335\" class=\"alignnone\" \/><\/a><\/p>\n<p><a href=\"http:\/\/www.upworthy.com\/4th-grader-to-obama-mr-president-why-do-people-hate-you\" target=\"_blank\">&quot;Mr.  President, Why Do People Hate You?&quot;<\/a>.\u00a0 This was a question that was posed to President  Obama by a fourth-grader last week, and it should cause us all to stop for a  moment and reflect on what has transpired over the past year or so.<\/p>\n<p>Win or lose (depending on your candidate of choice),  Election 2012 marks a significant lowlight.\u00a0  Campaigns, especially presidential campaigns, are often brutal  affairs.\u00a0 But this one was nastier, uglier,  and more comprehensive in negativity that was often dipped in racist dogma;  involving everyone from individual citizens to a higher institutional level  that even included elected officials. This election wasn&#8217;t about voting someone  into office to make us great or &quot;fight the good fight&quot;. It was an  election based on manufactured hate. Frankly, it\u2019s been enough to make my  stomach turn.<\/p>\n<p>Let me be clear:\u00a0 this  applies to Democrats as well as Republicans.\u00a0  I wrote awhile back on the story of <a href=\"http:\/\/www.huffingtonpost.com\/2012\/10\/23\/sean-kedzie-wisconsin-beaten-romney_n_2007232.html\" target=\"_blank\">a  guy who was beaten because he put a pro-Romney sign in his yard<\/a>, and another  one about <a href=\"http:\/\/www.huffingtonpost.com\/2012\/10\/10\/philly-girl-in-political-_0_n_1955308.html\" target=\"_blank\">a  teen who was mocked by her teacher at school for wearing a pro-Romney shirt<\/a>.\u00a0 Both of these incidents are wrong on so many  levels that I hardly know where to begin.\u00a0  But I&#8217;ll give it a shot by referring to my own experience, especially my  years going to an almost all-white private prep school from grades 7-12.<\/p>\n<p>My school high school was an extremely right-leaning prep  school. When Ronald Reagan was running for the presidency, there were often strong  disagreements on who to support with my classmates, at no time was I ever  ridiculed by a teacher for my beliefs as a Democratic.\u00a0 It\u2019s unconscionable to me to know that the supporters  of a President who has been so badly maligned would stoop to the kind of lows.\u00a0 This is especially true when one of the  \u201cstoopers\u201d is a teacher.\u00a0 It\u2019s not right or  funny under any circumstance.\u00a0 <\/p>\n<p><em>(Note: at no time was  I physically threatened by my political affiliations though I would never be  na\u00efve enough to suggest that such things didn\u2019t happen somewhere in Cleveland  given the great racial divide at the time.)<\/em><\/p>\n<p>I would rather err on the side of protecting the rights for  everyone than merely getting what I want for myself.\u00a0 It\u2019s that aspect of personal accountability  with respect to propriety, or lack thereof, that\u2019s been so shocking. I\u2019ve been  surprised how many people have been willing to condone outrageous and\/or  disgusting behavior, either outright or by their silence, as long as the ends  justify the means; no matter how bad the collateral damage to our system of  governance. \u00a0When you see someone  observing abhorrent behavior while acting as if nothing is happening, it&#8217;s hard  not to also see &quot;guilt by association&quot;.<\/p>\n<p>Let&#8217;s take a look at just a handful of the more visible and  egregious instances of personal attacks on the President, his race, and his  religion:<\/p>\n<ul>\n<li><a href=\"http:\/\/www.huffingtonpost.com\/2012\/10\/26\/ann-coulter-retard_n_2022621.html\" target=\"_blank\">Ann  Coulter referring to the President as &quot;the retard&quot;<\/a><\/li>\n<li>Donald Trump continuing to question the  President&#8217;s citizenship <a href=\"http:\/\/www.huffingtonpost.com\/2012\/05\/28\/mitt-romney-will-not-repu_n_1551540.html\" target=\"_blank\">with  no repudiation by the GOP candidate<\/a><\/li>\n<li>John Sununu&#8217;s statement that <a href=\"http:\/\/www.cbsnews.com\/8301-34222_162-57541013\/sununu-suggests-colin-powells-obama-endorsement-racially-driven\/\" target=\"_blank\">Colin  Powell&#8217;s endorsement of the President was made because of their common race<\/a><\/li>\n<li>Paul Ryan\u2019s attack on the President by saying  that <a href=\"http:\/\/www.washingtonpost.com\/national\/on-faith\/in-invoking-judeo-christian-values-ryan-is-stunning-in-his-hyprocrisy\/2012\/11\/05\/8a2654ce-27ad-11e2-9972-71bf64ea091c_story.html\" target=\"_blank\">his  policies would threaten Judeo-Christian values<\/a><\/li>\n<li><a href=\"http:\/\/www.theblaze.com\/stories\/what-did-a-man-wear-to-a-romney-event-that-was-so-offensive-the-campaign-denounced-it-as-reprehensible\/\" target=\"_blank\">&quot;Put  the white back in the White House&quot; t-shirts proudly on display with no  mention by the GOP candidate himself<\/a><\/li>\n<li><a href=\"http:\/\/blogs.citypages.com\/blotter\/2012\/11\/obama_effigy_hangs_from_duluth_billboard_photo.php\" target=\"_blank\">Effigies  of our African-American President with nooses around their necks<\/a><\/li>\n<\/ul>\n<p>The  list could go on, but you get the point.<\/p>\n<p>It\u2019s just as easy, however, to find examples of personal  attacks against Bush in 2004.\u00a0 So after  noting my disgust at the above examples of bad behavior, I\u2019ll move on, albeit begrudgingly,  to the more disturbing examples of how the GOP used positions of power to take  away the vote of the citizenry:<\/p>\n<ul>\n<li>Voter ID laws, <a href=\"http:\/\/www.youtube.com\/watch?v=o32tF-S6K60\" target=\"_blank\">PA in particular<\/a>, that  had little to do with countering voter fraud and everything to do with making  it more difficult for people to vote, presumably those who would be more  inclined to vote for the President.<\/li>\n<li>Cuts to Early Voting hours that were <a href=\"http:\/\/www.thedailybeast.com\/articles\/2012\/08\/13\/michael-tomasky-on-how-the-gop-plans-to-block-the-black-vote.html\" target=\"_blank\">designed  to undercut the voter turnout for African-Americans, Latinos, and others most  likely to vote for the President<\/a>.<\/li>\n<li><a href=\"http:\/\/thinkprogress.org\/justice\/2012\/10\/21\/1055031\/ohio-secretary-of-state-says-restoring-early-voting-is-un-american\/?mobile=nc\" target=\"_blank\">Ohio  attempting to dramatically cut early voting days<\/a>, and refusals to extend  Early Voting hours in Ohio and Florida even as citizens stood in lines of up to  7 hours so that their voice could be heard.<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n<p>These examples are more troubling in terms of our future  discourse as a nation.\u00a0 It\u2019s bad enough  when individuals can\u2019t discuss\/disagree without going to such a guttural level.\u00a0 It\u2019s more reprehensible when the perceived  attacks come from elected officials who are supposed to protect and promote the  greater good for all of their citizenry.\u00a0  How can OH Secretary of State Jon Husted or FL Governor Rick Scott pretend  to be effective leaders when both have said \u201cScrew you\u201d to their respective  electorates, not to mention how this further undermines the eroding trust  between citizens and their Government.\u00a0 <\/p>\n<p>In the end, nobody wins from any of these actions.\u00a0 The winners in this election, the Democrats  and Obama supporters, no longer feel they can trust government officials and  institutions that they should be able to trust, nor the people who stood by in  silence while all these things happened.\u00a0  The losers, in this case the Republicans and Romney supporters, will also  continue to feel that they can no longer trust the government to look out for  their interests (as fueled by the machinations of entities like Fox News). <\/p>\n<p>Personal mistrust is high on both sides, and I\u2019m not sure  even for myself how we move forward.\u00a0  This is especially so after yet another FB discussion with someone who couldn\u2019t  understand why acknowledging the personal attacks on the President \u2013 especially  the race-based ones \u2013 is so important to me.\u00a0  As a gay African-American male who has personally felt attacked and \u201cat  war\u201d with what appeared to be the potential for looming GOP legislation to  assail my rights, it\u2019s not enough to \u201cagree to disagree\u201d.\u00a0 This battle was about very real concerns to  my prospects for &quot;life, liberty and the pursuit of happiness&quot;.\u00a0 If someone can\u2019t acknowledge that in the  greater context, then our friendship has no life.<\/p>\n<p>So what is the answer to moving forward with civility, as individuals  and as a country?\u00a0 I\u2019ll tell you when I  find my own answers while also repairing my own excursions over the \u201cdecency  line\u201d (thanks Marcia).<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>&quot;Mr. President, Why Do People Hate You?&quot;.\u00a0 This was a question that was posed to President Obama by a fourth-grader last week, and it should cause us all to stop for a moment and reflect on what has transpired over the past year or so. 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